Do you get it at the hands of a ham-fisted parent? Is it imposed by a teacher to the tune of a hickory stick? Or is it self-discipline, controlling the raging bull of Id, managing the slings and arrows of outrageous entrepreneurship?
And our adversary, procrastination, is universal!
However described or imposed, discipline is what many small businesses, and small business owners lack, need, pay lip service to, and ignore!
We can recall when we decided not to report to “the man” any longer. We would be our own boss, make it on our own, with a clear picture of what had to be done, and when, and by whom!
At the same time, we also gave ourselves permission to procrastinate, fudge, wiggle out, or flat-out change our minds – about duties, deadlines and obligations. Sounded pretty good, best of both worlds.
It’s why banks are so squirrely about loaning money to young small businesses. It’s why 6 million small businesses started up this year. It’s also why 40% of them are gone in the first year, 80% in four! Time and capital invested without significant return. Not good stuff.
If you have been troubled by the lack of discipline in your business, for whatever reason, this article is for you.
Now, there is an absurdly great joy in what can be called “self-mastery.” In that bucket goes the accomplishment of something you’ve been procrastinating. The weight lifted off your shoulders is formidable (of course, you hadn’t noticed it before!). The sense of being “back in command of yourself” is exciting. And all because you did something you’d set out to do a while ago, and had put off.
Some of my clients personalize this phenomenon – call it “their demon.” So did Joseph Campbell, a man who understood what we construct in our minds – he was an expert on myths, and demons. “If I swallow my demon, I gain his power, for the greater life’s pain, the greater life’s return.”
Recommendation: First, acknowledge procrastination. “We have met the enemy and he is us!” Create some systems which expose it (I like the Getting Things Done process by David Allen. ) Also you can get yourself an accountability partner. Someone exterior to your business, to whom you can account. Someone who will manage the responsibility of accountability with understanding, generosity, and fidelity to the strategic, tactical and financial objectives of your business.
Successful businesspeople, like the acrobat at the top of this article, try to manage this issue rigorously. By confronting the discipline issue, you can have clear performance targets, hit them or miss them, celebrate your victories and learn from your mistakes (one of the most valuable opportunities for a small business operator. ) In this way, you have the freedom you sought and avoid some of the real liabilities.
The truth of it, however, is that the demon is as devious as we are, for obvious reasons! You and I can procrastinate anything, anytime. You can’t stamp it out, but there are some excellent processes for dealing with it, and the results and delight are amazing!
Further conversation? Craig Jennings, Business Coach, 516 944-6454, www.craigjennings.com, craig@craigjennings.com